
Last spring I worked on a weekly series called “Monday Morning Meditation” where I would try to connect some thoughts, ideas and perspectives about leadership to the teachings of Zen. It is my hope that by devoting some time to the complex and very human interactions associated with leadership, we can find new ways to approach our work as leaders and help us on our journey towards reshaping our schools.
On Balance
Gaoan Said:
“What students should keep in mind are balance and truthfulness; even though thwarted in a hundred ways they will remain serene and untroubled. But if they have any inclination or bias, and spend the days and nights in petty striving with gain as their aim, I fear their enormous bodies will not fit between the heaven and earth.”
I am sure that many of us in leadership positions have found ourselves looking for that perfect balance. In our professional and personal lives, in our ability to deal with the stresses of work and home. It never seems to be fully possible to find that perfect balance because those of us who work in schools are keenly aware that the nature ebb and flow of the school year comes with moments of rest and reflection while at other times, the pace feels frenetic and out of control. What I find interesting in this passage is the notion that balance and truthfulness are linked together. Our inability to find balance often comes from our unwillingness to be truthful with ourselves. Why do we prioritize certain things over others? What drives us to make the decisions we make? What frames our way of thinking about our work and our relationships with our colleagues and direct reports? Remaining free of bias, keeping an open mind and perspective are often challenges for those of us in leadership positions. We can quickly become thwarted by a variety of factors that can get in the way, for example making decisions based on seeking personal gain.
Finding that perfect balance in life may seem a lofty aspiration but if we take the time to recognize that our approach to our work, our colleagues and our personal lives can serve as the vehicle towards finding more balance in our life, the challenge may not seem as difficult as it once did.
Namaste
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